Today, I am delighted to host Colleen Chesebro for Day 7 of the WordCrafter Poetry Treasures 2: Relationships anthology blog tour. Colleen is an accomplished poet and a leader in the blogosphere of poetry and new poetry forms. I am grateful to Colleen for everything she has taught me over the past few years.
Thoughts on relationships by Colleen Chesebro
Writing poetry about the theme of relationships for the second Poetry Treasures anthology took me on a thorough analysis into my past. It took me years to figure out I was an introvert.
Extroversion and introversion are at the opposite ends of the spectrum. How you receive and give out energy determines where you fall on this spectrum. But people can fall anywhere on the spectrum.
The other huge myth? Introverts are shy and extroverts are outgoing. Not so. In my younger years, I was an extroverted introvert, often slipping into the role of the life of the party. Now, I’ve grown into my introversion. It shows in my poetry in ways I never expected.
Being an introvert helped me connect with my feelings, which drew me to writing senryu. Senryu are a Japanese poetry form that is written about love, and the human condition. Most senryu contain a bit of irony. These poems deal with anything that touches on the pain we experience from simple everyday living. We often leave emotions open and raw. But we don’t deal with sentimentality in these poems.
I wish you could see
in me, what I saw in you—
our friendship destroyed
© Colleen M. Chesebro
Relationships can be difficult. The senryu above, I wrote about a friend I lost many years ago. People often come and go in our lives, some leaving deep wounds and scars. This is the beauty of senryu poetry. I learned some valuable lessons in that relationship. And I also learned forgiveness.
Thanks for stopping by.
About Colleen Chesebro
Colleen M. Chesebro is a Michigan Poet who loves crafting syllabic poetry, flash fiction, and creative fiction and nonfiction. Colleen sponsors a weekly syllabic poetry challenge, called Tanka Tuesday, on wordcraftpoetry.com where participants learn how to write traditional and current forms of syllabic poetry. A published author, Colleen is also an editor of “Word Weaving, a Word Craft Journal of Syllabic Verse, also found on wordcraftpoetry.com.” Her poetry has appeared in several online publications. Colleen’s mission is to bring the craft of writing syllabic poetry to anyone who thinks they can’t be a poet.
You can find Colleen’s books on Amazon here: https://www.amazon.com/Colleen-M-Chesebro/e/B01N9MV2RX
Twitter: https://twitter.com/ColleenChesebro
Poetry Treasures 2: Relationships
Relationships are golden and each of the poems of Arthur Rosch, Elizabeth Merry, D.Avery, Robbie Cheadle, Harmony Kent, Lauren Scott, JulesPaige, Leon Stevens, Collen M. Chesebro, Miriam Hurdle, M.J. Mallon, and Lynda McKinney Lambert pay poetic tribute to their most intense personal moments.
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Giveaway
To be entered in the drawing, you must leave a comment at all eight tour stops. Follow the tour and leave a comment at each stop to be entered in a random drawing for chance to win a free digital copy of Poetry Treasures 2: Relationships.
Poetry Treasures 2: Relationships – April 25 – May 2
Monday (25) – Opening Day Post – Writing to be Read/Lauren’s post
Tuesday (26) – ShiftnShake – Robbie’s post (Deanne host)
Wednesday (27) – The Showers of Blessings – Lynda’s post
Thursday (28) – Baydreamer – Miriam’s post
Friday (29) – Zigler’s News – Review/Marje’s post
Saturday (30) – This Is My Truth Now – Spotlight on the publisher/Kaye
Sunday (5/1) – Robbie’s Inspiration – Colleen’s post
Monday (5/2) – Writing to be Read/Closing post – Leon’s Post
Wonderful to bear witness to this path of Colleen’s poetry experience! Her soul is dedicated to her craft.
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HI Annette, Colleen is very dedicated and very generous with her advice to others.
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Robbie, I love how through practice we’ve all learned so much about writing poetry together. Our community support is fabulous. Thanks so much. ❤
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Annette, thanks so much for reading. Syllabic poetry is my Ikigari (a reason for getting up in the morning). Of course that goes along with Ron, and the unicorn cats. LOL! ❤
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It’s good to do things that make you happy. 💕
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Yes! Life is too short to be unhappy. ❤
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I was particularly interested in Colleen’s comments about the extrovert/introvert dichotomy.
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Hi Liz, Colleen’s experiences in that regard, reflect my own. I too am less included to go to the effort of socialising as I get older. I did make the effort when I was younger.
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Robbie, our accounting background has a bit to do with our introversion, as well. I’ve only met one partially extraverted accountant, and even he was mostly introverted. We’re thinkers and doers… ❤
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Same here, particularly since Covid.
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You are probably right about that, Colleen. Accountants are all a certain type of person.
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I think we grow into ourselves more because we know who we are when we get older. I’m comfortable with me and like to direct my energy to the places that are most important to me. How about you, Liz?
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I think you’re right about growing into ourselves as we get older. I’m devoting the majority of my time to my writing now while I still have my wits about me.
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LOL! Yes! Me too. Besides, that writing will keep us young. 😂💜
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I’m counting on it!
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LOL! Me too! 😜
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Reblogged this on Writing to be Read and commented:
Day 7 of the WordCrafter “Poetry Treasures 2” Book Blog Tour finds us at “Robbie’s Inspiration” with a lovely post by Colleen M. Chesebro. Join us to learn more about this amazing poetry anthology and the contributing poets. Comment at each stop for a chance to get a copy of your own for free!
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Hi Kaye, thanks for visiting and sharing.
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Kaye Lynn, thanks so much for all you do. I appreciate you so much. ❤
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Thank you, Colleen. And I am happy to have you as a contributing poet to this anthology. 🙂
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Thanks so much. ❤
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Introversion always seems to have a negative connotation. I enjoy meeting people, but I can take it or leave it. I tell people that it’s not that I want to be alone, I just don’t mind it when I am.
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Yes! That’s perfect, Leon. I agree with you. I don’t get my energy from being with other people. I get my energy from my alone time. But, I couldn’t agree with you more. ❤
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HI Leon, I do like your thoughts on introversion. I must be honest, I often like (prefer) to be alone so I can read, write, and do other solitary activities I enjoy. I don’t get to be alone that much though.
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Then it makes it all the more special and important when you can.
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Robbie, thanks so much for allowing me to discuss my poetry. You are the most wonderful host and I can’t thank you enough for all you do. ❤
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HI Colleen, it is my pleasure to host you and I am delighted you are a part of Poetry Treasures 2.
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Thanks so much, Robbie. You’re simply the best! ❤
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Lovely post from Colleen, Robbie, and it’s nice to meet her through this anthology. Thanks for hosting. 💞
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Thanks so much Lauren. It was a great way to meet other poets. ❤
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HI Lauren, I am glad you enjoyed Colleen’s post. She has inspired so many poets to attempt syllabic poetry and I have personally learned so much from her.
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Reblogged this on Pattys World.
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Thanks so much for sharing, Patty. ❤
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Thank you, Patty.
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Thanks for sharing, Patty. 🙂
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I always refer to Colleen as our syllabic Angel… she has inspired so much of disciplined poetry! It’s nice to know more about her. Thanks for sharing this fabulous post Robbie.
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Balroop, you’ve made me blush! Thank you for your lovely comments. We’ve all come so far the last few years in our poetry writing, haven’t we? Hugs for reading. ❤
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I have learned so many nuances of writing syllabic poetry with your guidance and inspiration Colleen. Many forms scared me but now I venture out with confidence. 😊
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That makes me so happy. You’re a lovey poet, Balroop. I’m so proud of you. 💜🌸💜🌸
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HI Balroop, we all feel the same way about Colleen and appreciate her wonderful support. Thank you for coming by and cheering her on.
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My pleasure Robbie. I have a lot of respect for Colleen.
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Nice to be introducing Colleen, Robbie. She has inspired so many with her lovely poetries. Congrats to you Colleen.
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HI Kamal, I am glad you enjoyed Colleen’s post. She really is an inspiration to us all.
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Yes Robbie, Colleen is a real inspiration to all of us 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼
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Thank you for your lovely comment. It is fun when you get to share the things you love, isn’t it? ❤
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Yes I completely agree with you Colleen. You are always welcome dear.
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Thanks so much. ❤
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Always welcome Colleen 🙏🏻
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Wonderful to see Colleen highlighted here today. I’ve learned a lot about symbolic poetry from her and love this poem and example 🙂 I’m looking forward to reading this, its on my TBR list.
Thanks for hosting, Robbie.
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Hi Denise, I also learned so much from Colleen about syllabic poetry. I am so pleased you enjoyed this post.
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Thank you, Denise. ❤
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Many of us would never discovered the joys of syllabic poetry if not for you Colleen and thank you for all that you share and your support for us all. Terrific post and thanks Robbie for sharing. Congratulations on the new anthology..♥
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HI Sally, thank you very much. I couldn’t agree more about Colleen and her wonderful support of poets.
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Sally, thank you for your support. I’ve enjoyed writing poetry with you so much. ❤
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Thanks for all your support and motivation Colleen, I wouldn’t have persevered without you ♥
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Or I without you, Sally. 😂💜💚💛
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It’s great to see Colleen hear and to learn a bit more about her inspiration for her poetry. Thanks, Robbie and good luck with the anthology.
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Hi Olga, I am so pleased you enjoyed this post. I have so much regard for Colleen. I don’t think I would have ever written syllabic poetry but for her.
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Robbie, I’m so happy to hear you say that. Writing syllabic poetry makes us better writers because we have to weigh out our word choice. Also, finding those meanings and connections. ❤
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Exactly 💕
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Olga, thanks so much for your lovely comments. You’ve always been a great support for me. ❤
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Colleen is a real gem! Shared on Twitter, Robbie.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Thaks for sharing, Pete. 🙂
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Thanks, Pete, I appreciate your share 💖
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Thank you so much, Pete. I don’t visit you near enough. Where does the time go? ❤
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It was great to see Colleen featured here. She’s embracing her inner introversion. 😀 I think many of us are social to a degree, but we need alone-time to recharge. And a beautiful reflection on how poetry has encouraged her to explore her emotions and relationships. Congrats on the latest collection! Thanks for hosting, Robbie. 🙂
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Thank you, Diana, I found Colleen’s thoughts about introverts and their behavior very interesting.
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Me too. I always think about it in terms of how we recharge. I can be somewhat social, but find it tiring and really need my alone time to center. It was a fun post and always lovely to learn more about bloggy friends. 😀
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Diana, thanks so much. For sure, I embrace my introversion. I learned early as a child how to entertain myself. I think that is a key ingredient to enjoying your alone time. ❤
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❤ ❤ I think introverts are good at entertaining ourselves. I never thought of it that way!
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LOL! Extroverts seek entertainment. Introverts make their own magic. 🪄🦄
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What a great post. I did not know about Seneyu poetry. Very powerful.
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Hi Carla, Colleen has introduced the poetry community to a wide variety of syllabic poetry.
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Thank you, Carla for your lovely comment. ❤
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A lovely post, Colleen. I’ve only recently learned that you can be both introverted and extroverted at the same time. It’s a matter of degrees and sometimes, a matter of different parts of your life. I always thought I was an extrovert, and am only now discovering that I really am an introvert. Self- discovery can take you to some strange places.
Robbie, thank you for hosting this stop on the tour. You’ve set-up a lovely post with Colleen’s post. 🙂
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HI Kaye, thank you. I found Colleen’s post very interesting too. I always knew I was an introvert but other people don’t see me that way because I can be very gregarious. I do enjoy people, I just find them draining. People often confide in me and I like to help them but that too takes a toll on your energy levels.
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Robbie, yes, that is the same for me. I would have to say you might be empathic, too. It takes time to learn to shield your energy. I’m only now learning how to fix it… more alone time always works. LOL! ❤
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Kaye Lynn, I think you settle into introversion more as you grow older. I know I did. I still enjoy people, just not in big groups like I used to. Now, it wears me out! LOL! Thanks for such lovely comments. You and Robbie are always so wonderful. ❤
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Insightful, Colleen, as always. (K)
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Thank you, Kerfe. I am creating a new cake art work, and it reminds me of you.
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I hope you will post it!
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Kerfe, you are always so kind. Thank you. ❤
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Thank you, Robbie, for featuring Colleen today. I love her relationship poem and her reflection on inspiration. Congratulations on the anthology. ✨🎉✨
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Hi Gwen, thank you for visiting. Colleen is a gem in our community and I am grateful for her guidance.
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Gwen, thanks so much for your visit and support. ❤
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It’s great to learn more about Colleen here, and how she get’s her inspiration. She is such a fantastic poet. Toni x
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Hi Toni, I couldn’t agree more. Sometimes I wish my own poetry didn’t spring from such a dark source. I use it as a vent for all my frustrations. Colleen creates such light and uplifting poems that make the reader feel happy.
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Robbie, there is nothing wrong with embracing those shadows… just remember there is light too. You can tap into your feelings of joy through your cake baking and decorating, and all the time you spend with your family. It’s all right there. ❤
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Hi Colleen, I don’t dwell on dark things, I exorcise them through writing and move on. I think it is one of the ways I manage to maintain my positive outlook on life. I am fortunate in that I am never depressed or down about life.
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Toni, thank you! You made my day. ❤
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Beautiful tour. I loved Colleen’s truth and her poem. Happy touring. ❤
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HI Debby, Colleen’s post was so interesting, I enjoyed it too.
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Hugs ❤
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Awww, Sis… thanks so much. We’ve had this conversation, haven’t we. I appreciate you stopping by. ❤
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Oh Yes ❤ xx
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After an enforced ‘on/off’ absence on social media for a good while, I found this – and oh, how it resonates,,, friendships are sometimes hard – losing them, harder. Beautiful words, Colleen. Thank you both. xx
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HI Judith, we all needs breaks from social media from time to time. I need them to ensure I don’t get stagnant. I didn’t take any over the pandemic lock down periods though. Then it helped keep my sane. I have recently severed ties with a friend. Some friendships are not worth retaining, they cause to my emotional angst.
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Bit of a problem with one eye, Robbie – still struggling a little but at least I’m allowed some time on the screen now. Dividing my day between writing and social media as much as I’m able. Ending a friendship is difficult – especially a long term one. It’s a little like grief, I feel. x
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I didn’t realise you had an eye problem, Judith. Was it cataracts? My mom had both her eyes done, one at a time.
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Robbie, that relationship I talked about in the poem, was with a person I went to college with. Our kids knew each other and her husband worked for mine when they were in the Air Force. This break-off happened ten years ago, and it still pains me. I’ve grieved for a long time. But sometimes its better for us… I’m just learning that. ❤
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I’m glad you’re back, Judith. You’ve been missed. Thanks for the read. ❤
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I can relate very well to Colleen’s poem. Thanks for sharing, Robbie! 🙂
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HI Yvette, I’m delighted to hear that. Thanks for visiting.
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Thank you so much, Yvi. Losing friends is hard. ❤
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Wonderful, Robbie.
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Thank you, Jennie
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You’re welcome, Robbie.
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Thank you for reading, Jennie. ❤
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My pleasure, Robbie.
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Robbie and Colleen –
Relationships can be easy or difficult. Especially the ones we have with our own egos. Often we do forget to forgive ourselves.
May we all continue in great friendship as we succeed in encouraging each other in our successes ~Jules
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HI Jules, thank you for this lovely comment. We have a wonderful poetry and blogging community.
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What makes it special to me is the inclusiveness of those from all over the world. 🙂
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Jules, that is true. Thanks for sharing your wisdom. ❤
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I so admire dear Colleen and her wonderful creations of gifts through words of poetry.. And marvel at her devotion and dedication to putting so much time and effort into her blog and posts as she inspires so many to be creative..
I love writing poetry.. Yet never mastered the various styles…
Just writing from my heart and intuition has been my style.. 🙂
Many thanks for sharing Colleen and the wonderful collection of poems gathered in one place within this book..
Sending you and Colleen much love as you continue to create and bring joy to all who read ❤
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Hi Sue, I think writing from your heart and soul is a terrific way of writing poetry. I like the syllabic poetry to convey strong messages in a few words, but I also write a lot of freestyle – especially when I’m emotional and venting.
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Sue, that you so much. I love your poetry! Writing from our hearts is what this poetry stuff is all about. I always try to share the world through my eyes, hoping it will help someone else connect to the world around them. You taught me that. Thank you, dear friend. ❤
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And I love the view from your eyes Colleen .. Many thanks 🙏💕
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Sue, thanks for your inspiration and vision. Your poetry always brings me joy. ❤
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Many thanks dear Collen 😘
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It’s wonderful to see Colleen her talking about her introvert-extrovert journey. I had a similar journey. I’m an introvert by nature but was trained to be an outgoing singing performer, group leader, and business administrator. I’m now retired from all of them and am happy to be an introvert doing my writing and enjoying my home life and being with my grandkids. 🙂
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Hi Miriam, I could also relate to this piece by Colleen and this is what my poem Modern Siren was about. It is nice you can now focus on the things that make you happy.
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I understand about professional obligations, Robbie. The excitement was temperately. I now can make my choices and do more things for my family.
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I knew you were an introvert, too, Miriam. Bravo to you for enjoying life to the fullest. ❤
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Yeah, Colleen. I eventually realized that I only have one life to live.💖
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Good for you, Miriam. 💖
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Thank you, Colleen. ❤
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I just finished reading this beautiful book of poetry and my review is going up soon! Just amazing!
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Hi Jan, I found this book to be lovely and varied. I am so pleased you enjoyed it.
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Jan, thanks so much. There was some wonderful talent in this book. ❤
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