What Amazon says
Finding a Balance is Laurens second book of poetry, following New Day, New Dreams published in 2013. This compilation speaks often of her emotions and spirit after finding out about a life threatening disease two years ago in one of her family members. There is no devastating ending in the near future but many unanswered questions that will plague her family indefinitely.
In contrast to this sadness, Lauren has always possessed a romantic soul and is blessed to have celebrated twenty six happy years of marriage to her husband and best friend. So from darkness to finding the light again through faith and adding a touch of romance, she finds strength to move forward. This book takes the reader on a roller coaster ride of different emotions evoked from life and love but regardless of what is thrown in her path, hope will always prevail.
My review
Finding a Balance is a collection of beautiful poems that speak to the daily emotions of life and, in particular, the pain and sadness of her journey along the path of a life threatening illness in a family member. Both my sons have suffered, and continue to suffer, chronic illnesses so this is something that is close to my own heart and to which I intimately related.
The poet’s shock at the news is clearly described in her poem The Cards We’re Dealt, a saying I use myself in relation to my own family’s illnesses. This is a quote from the opening stanza:
“We sail through life smoothly
until a wave knocks us down
with no means for escaping
no turning around or backing away”
Seeing our loved ones in pain and ill and not being able to do anything about it is one of the heaviest burdens a mother can bear. These words say it all:
“Shaking my head,
I lie in beads of sweat’
gripping the edge,
waiting to fall
into the depths …”
From Reality’s Edge
Not all the poems are about chronic illness. Many are about the poet’s love for her family and her husband of 26 years. There are some delightful romantic poems in this collection. The one I enjoyed the most is called The Box:
“You placed it in my hands, adorned with a red bow
only a short clip of time had passed by our window
After pulling out tissue paper of white
I was entranced by the amazing sight
For inside was a lifetime together
and a house to be filled by the love we would gather
The walls stood bare waiting for memories to dress
showing reasons for us feeling truly blessed
The best gift of all, thought, I am thrilled to say
was your heart at the bottom, committed to stay”
I have read another book by this poet and find her writing and poetry to be simple and genuine, filled with realistic emotions and thoughts and not couched in complex wording that is difficult to decipher and understand. There is poetic strength in simplicity.
It’s heartening to see a wife and mother able to access deep emotions and then expressing them poetically. Therapeutic–and beautiful. Thanks, Robbie! 😀
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Hi Marian, the themes, anxieties and emotions Lauren captures in her poetry is very relatable to all mothers. I am so pleased you enjoyed this review.
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Thanks again, Robbie. ❤️
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Thanks so much, Marian. 💗
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Thanks for another excellent review, Robbie. If you find duplicate comments, it’s because I’m fighting with WordPress to be able to post.
I am always looking for poetry books to add to my (growing) pile, and I appreciate your recommendation.
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HI Dan, I am sorry to hear your are having more WP issues. I enjoy Lauren’s poetry very much. I always relate very strongly to her words and thought processes.
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I have a new phone, and WP is making me log into 3 out of 5 sites. There’s no apparent reason. It likes to wait until I have successfully liked a post and am trying to post a comment.
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Ah, I have to log in for every comment when I use my iphone or ipad, but not when I use my laptop. It is a real pain.
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Hi, Robbie,
I haven’t read any book from her but I like the two excerpts you have chosen to feature in this blog article. I also trust your judgement in poetry because you are a wonderful poet yourself. I will give this book of poetry a chance because I love good poetry that touches the emotional world of a person.
Shalom aleichem
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Hi Pat, I hope you enjoy it. Lauren’s poetry really resonates with me and I like that it is powerful but still easy to read.
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Hi Pat, Thank you for your support, and I hope you enjoy my book as much as Robbie did.
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Good Morning, Lauren,
Thank you for getting in touch with me. I couldn’t find your book on Amazon Germany last night because I was too tired. I kept missing it. This morning, I tried again and had no problems finding it at all. So I can now officially say it is in my digital library. I usually like the poetry authors that Robbie recommends. I haven’t been disappointed at all with her recommendations, so I look forward to reading yours. I will write a review after reading but please give three or four weeks because I am participating in a Challenge this month and I am falling behind in many tasks that I will need to catch up on.
Shalom aleichem
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Good morning, Pat, and thank you so much for buying my book. Again, I hope you enjoy, and just so you know, all proceeds go to The Chris Klug Foundation in support of organ donation. That was the soul purpose of the book, not to mention, therapeutic for me. I am grateful for Robbie’s lovely review, and please take your time. There is no rush. My only hope is that the poems are meaningful to you as well. Thanks again and take care.
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Lauren Scott is a wonderful poet who expresses feelings familiar to many of us, so well in her words.
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Hi Darlene, that is exactly right. Lauren’s poetry is incredibly relatable.
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Hi Darlene,
Thank you for your kind words. I truly appreciate them. 💗
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Great review for a wonderful book. I loved the poems and the presentation on the page. Highly recommend. Well done, Lauren.
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Hi Bette, thanks for reading and adding your recommendation for this lovely book.
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Thank you, Bette! That is so kind of you! 💞
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My pleasure, dear Robbie!
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Good luck to Lauren with her book, Robbie.
Shared on Twitter for you both.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Thank you, Pete!
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Thank you, Pete. Appreciated as always.
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Thanks for sharing your thoughts on this book of poetry, Robbie. It sounds like Lauren has bared her soul through the words. I know I would love this!
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Hi Jan, yes, I think you will relate strongly to Lauren’s writing too. I always feel that a poem is a tiny piece of the writer’s soul.
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Hi Jan, thank you for your lovely comment. If you read my book, I hope the poems touch you as well. I’m thrilled with Robbie’s beautiful review.
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Aw, thank you for introducing me to Lauren Scott! Her heart appears in her poetry.
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Hi Annette, it is my great pleasure. Lauren’s poetry is lovely.
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Thanks so much, Annette. 💞
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Lauren is a spontaneous poet, I love her poetry. Thanks for sharing your thoughts about this book Robbie. Well-deserved.
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Hi Balroop, I am glad you enjoyed this post. Thank you.
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Thanks, Balroop! Your lovely words are greatly appreciated. ❤️
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Congratulations to Lauren on this wonderful review! I agree that simple language can hold great power in poetry.
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Hi Liz, I like simplicity. I don’t like feeling like I am doing a higher grade English test when I read poetry as that spoils my engagement with the words.
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I know just what you mean, Robbie. Poetry shouldn’t be an exercise in cryptography.
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Hi Robbie, I used to think simple was a negative thought. But honestly, the more I write, the more I would rather build a warm relationship with my readers, knowing they can relate to the pictures I sketch through words or the emotions I’m conveying. I hope they can gain a nugget of understanding or comfort when the last page is turned, instead of thinking they had to be a master of decoding. So thank you because I feel the same way when reading poetry. I want to feel it… ❤️
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Thanks for your support, Liz!
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You’re welcome, Lauren!
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This sounds like a wonderful collection of poetry, Robbie. Thank you for sharing your review. 😊
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My pleasure, Gwen. I really enjoyed this collection and Lauren is a wonderful person.
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Thanks for your kind comment, Gwen.
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Thank you for the exciting review and introduction to Lauren Scott. I am now following Lauren on her Amazon page.
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Hi REbecca, I am delighted I could introduce you to Lauren Scott. I like her poetry very much. If you would like to read more of Lauren’s poetry, you can do so on her blog here: https://baydreamerwrites.com/2023/01/11/the-trio/
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Thanks for following me on Amazon, Rebecca, and I hope to see you on my blog sometime. 🥰 And Robbie, I’m sounding like a broken record, but thanks again. ❤️
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A lovely review of Lauren’s work, Robbie. Congratulations to her.
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Thank you, John. Lauren writes lovely poetry.
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Yes she does.
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Thanks for your support, John!
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A beautiful review, Robbie, and I can see why the poems felt so personal to you. I think gifted poets have a way of tying experiences and emotions together with common threads that almost all of us can relate to. Congrats to Lauren, and thanks for sharing your thoughts about her lovely book.
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Hi Diana, this is a beautifully expressed comment. That is exactly right.
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Thanks for your beautiful comment, Diana, and for your support as well. I’m so glad you have enjoyed my poetry over the years. And I am delighted with Robbie’s review, although there are some heart-tugging emotions in my book. ❤️
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I like both the simplicity and depth of her words–well-captured emotions. (K)
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Thank you, Kerfe. I think so too.
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Thanks so much, Kerfe!
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You’re welcome.
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Hi Robbie, Thanks so much for this beautiful review. This was a tough time for my family, and although I’m grateful my poems touched you, I’m sorry they resonated with you in such a personal way. But it’s also comforting to know we’re not alone. And you’re right, when we watch our children suffer in pain and there isn’t anything we can do to magically take it away, well, it’s the most horrible, helpless feeling I’ve ever experienced. I physically felt the pain too. By the way, all proceeds go to The Chris Klug Foundation in support of organ donation, so I truly appreciate not only your wonderful review, but your support as well. Your family is in my prayers also.
I’ll reblog tomorrow. Hugs xo
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HI Lauren, thank you for your lovely comment. I could appreciate from your poems, what a difficult time it was. My own currently poetry is reflecting my own anxieties over my husband. Michael is doing much better although the operation isn’t a cure, just a facilitator for better treatment. He ran into the wall on Monday night and smashed his nose which bled everywhere. I had to rush him to the emergency room but, thankfully, everything was okay. I think my family are trying to kill me – smile!
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Oh my gosh, Robbie, I’m glad Michael is okay! I pray your husband is doing better too, but I understand your anxieties. Life can be challenging, to say the least. My daughter is doing okay, but the future remains a question mark. And just a few years ago, my son received the same diagnosis. We were stunned and our spirits crushed once again. What are the odds? Sigh. I try not to worry because it does no good. I just try to focus on the fact that they’re doing okay now and hold on to that positivity. It’s out of my control, but it’s not easy; it’s never easy. Anyway, sending more hugs!
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Thanks for sharing your review, Robbie. I enjoy Lauren’s poetry very much.
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HI Jill, I am delighted to know that. It is very relatable.
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Thanks for your lovely words and support, Jill.
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It’s amazing how her words echo your own.
Hope T is home?
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Hi Tandy, he is not home yet but he has moved to a general ward. If today’s tests go well, then he will come home soon.
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I hope the tests go well so he can go home, Robbie. Being in the hospital isn’t easy either with all the noise.
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Yes, that is exactly what he’s complaining about.
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Congratulations to Lauren on this wonderful review. How are you, Robbie? xxx
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Hi Toni, I am doing okay, just a little tired with all the running about because I am doing everything at home (my hubby usually does the school run) and also working and making daily visits to the hospital. Terence is doing a lot better and if the tests today go well, he will come home on Friday.
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That’s great news – take good care of yourself xx
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Thanks very much, Toni!
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A lovely review, Robbie. I agree with you about Lauren’s writing. It warms the heart and is soft and beautiful. The poems you shared are romantic and touching. Thank you for this review.
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Hi Smitha, thanks for your lovely words. They are greatly appreciated. 💞
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A lovely review for Lauren’s collection Robbie and having enjoyed her poetry I am sure this is wonderful.
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Hi Sally, thanks for your beautiful words and support. xo
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Pleasure Lauren ♥
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Robbie, a thoughtful and heartfelt review of what looks to be a perfectly balanced collection of poems. Kudos to Lauren for turning to poetry as her world is thrown into frightening turmoil and wow, the ones shared here by you are striking in the simplicity yet reach into the heart of all our lives. Going through mixed times myself these poems will resonate deeply with me as well.
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Thanks for your lovely words, Annika. If you read my book, I hope the poems are touching for you as well. Robbie wrote a wonderful review. 💗
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I lost a son seven years ago and I share the heartache and frustration of not being able to save him from his fate. Poetry is a medium that helped me understand I wasn’t alone. Lauren’s book looks like one of those books. I particularly like the poem about the present. Thanks Robbie for the review and I hope your life is peaceful.
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Hi Bernadette, I am so sorry to hear about your son. There really are no words, but writing is therapeutic for those whose hearts are hurting. I hope you find comfort in my poems if you decide to read this collection. Thank you for your lovely comment. xo
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Reblogged this on Baydreamer ~ Lauren Scott and commented:
Robbie’s beautiful review of my 2nd poetry collection released in 2015. All proceeds go to The Chris Klug Foundation in support of organ donation. ❤️
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Thanks for boosting the post, Lauren.
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Such a beautiful review Robbie and I love the poems you chose of hers that are so gripping and you can feel each word. Lauren is a wonderful writer and lovely human being whose heart shows up in all of her work. Excellent. I’m sure she’s elated! 💞
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Hi Cindy, you are exactly right in your assessment of Lauren’s character and writing. Thank you so much.
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You are most welcome Robbie!!! ❤️💕❤️
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Cindy, thanks so much for your lovely words. They truly warm my heart. And I am elated with Robbie’s review. She has a way that makes all authors do the happy dance. 🙂 Hugs xo
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Oh I’m so delighted Lauren. They are most deserved. I’m clicking my heels and tapping my toes with you! 💞👏
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A wonderful review for what sounds like a wonderful collection. All the best to Lauren. Thanks for sharing, Robbie. Hugs 💕🙂
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Hi Harmony, lovely to see you. I am delighted you enjoyed this review.
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Thanks, Robbie! Hugs 💖🤗💖
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Thanks for your lovely words and support, Harmony. ❤️
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Thank you so much dear Robbie for this wonderful review of Lauren’s poetry book. Lauren is awesome with her poems. Excellent post.
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HI Kamal, I am so pleased you enjoyed my review. Lauren is a wonderful and heartfelt poet.
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Yes Robbie she is awesome 👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽
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Hi Kamal,
Thank you so much for your wonderful words and ongoing support. And I’m grateful for Robbie’s beautiful review. xo
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Lauren you are always welcome and Robbie is wonderful with her reviews. Have a wonderful weekend 😊😊
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Gorgeous review Robbie. Lauren is a beautiful writer who’s words always evoke heartfelt emotion. I must get to her books. Huge congrats to Lauren ❤
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Hi Debby, thank you for this lovely comment. I completely agree and I am so glad I met Lauren through her blog.
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Thanks for your lovely words and support, Debby. They are truly appreciated, and I hope you enjoy my books as much as Robbie has. I love her reviews and am grateful my books have resonated with her. Hugs ❤️❤️
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No doubts I will Lauren. Congrats again.<3 xx
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Loving the poetic excerpts you share and your thoughts on this book! ❤
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Thank you, I really enjoy Lauren’s heartfelt writing.
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Thanks for reading, Layla, and for your lovely support. 💞
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Very moving and beautiful examples of Lauren’s poetry and a great review. Good luck to her and thanks for your recommendation, Robbie. I hope everything is going well.
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Hi Olga, thanks so much for your beautiful comment and wishes. 💗
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HI Olga, I am glad you enjoyed this review. I enjoyed Lauren’s poetry very much.
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