Today I am introducing you to poet, author and blogger, Ritu Bhathal. Ritu has selected a lovely poem from her book Poetic RITUals to share here today.
From Twinkle to Reality
Let me take you down that road,
Much-travelled through eternity
The journey to become a mum,
From twinkle to reality.
The plans you make at a young age,
Full of gurgles and laughter,
The horror as you realise,
What really does come after!
The fun of trying,
The monthly wait.
The disappointment,
That feeling, you hate…
The years of trying,
Full of hospitals and checks,
The medication taking you over,
You feel like total wrecks…
Then finally, the day comes
That positive is clear
The goal that you were aiming for,
Has suddenly come near.
The months of fascination,
Your changing body grows
The feeling of satisfaction
That only you can know
Those pain-filled days or hours
To reach the prize you sought
The feeling of satisfaction
That this little bundle brought.
I gaze at you in wonder
Are you really here?
I’m overwhelmed with happiness
And a tiny bit of fear.
Will I be able to give to you
All you want and need?
As you look at me, wide eyed
Snuggled close while you feed.
Little blessing, sent from God
My heart is filled with joy
I will do all I can for you,
My darling baby boy.
And so the cycle continues
The waits and checks again
We’re gifted with a gorgeous girl
After a little more pain.
My life is here with me right now
Some twinkles from my eyes.
But I’ll never forget those twinkles
That now, do grace the skies…
I chose this poem to share as there are many women out there who struggle to have a family, as many as there are women who appear to fall pregnant at the drop of a hat. I experienced this as I was diagnosed with Poly Cystic Ovaries and had my own struggles to overcome before I was able to finally hold my own two bundles of joy.
Thank you, Ritu, for sharing this lovely poem and its meaning here today.
Ritu is in the process of finalising her first novel, Marriage: Unarranged. I have read a few short extracts from this book and it sounds very interesting.
About Ritu Bhathal
Ritu Bhathal was born in Birmingham in the mid-1970’s to migrant parents, hailing from Kenya but with Indian origin. This colourful background has been a constant source of inspiration to her. From childhood, she always enjoyed reading. This love of books is mostly credited to her mother. The joy of reading spurred her on to become creative in her own writing, from fiction to poetry. Winning little writing competitions at school and locally gave her the encouragement to continue writing. As a wife, mother, daughter, sister, and teacher, she has drawn on inspiration from many avenues to create the poems that she writes. A qualified teacher, having studied at Kingston University, she now deals with classes of children as a sideline to her writing! Ritu also writes a blog, a mixture of life and creativity, thoughts and opinions, which was awarded first place in the Best Overall Blog Category at the 2017 Annual Bloggers Bash Awards. Ritu is happily married, and living in Kent, with her Hubby Dearest, and two children, not forgetting the furbaby Sonu Singh.
Having published an anthology of poetry, Poetic RITUals, she is currently working on some short stories, and a novel, to be published in the near future.
Find Ritu Bhathal
Social Media Profiles Blog Website: http://www.butismileanyway.com
Author Website: http://www.ritubhathal.com
Twitter: https://twitter.com/RituBhathal
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ritubhathalwrites/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/butismileanyway/
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Pinterest: https://uk.pinterest.com/bhathalpadhaal/
Goodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/user/show/56854412-ritu-bhathal
Mix: https://mix.com/butismileanyway
Tumblr: https://www.tumblr.com/blog/ritusmiles
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ritu-bhathal-48941648/
Bloglovin: https://www.bloglovin.com/@ritubhathalpadhaal
My review of Poetic RITUals
This is a delightful book of poetry with a lot of variety in the tone and content of the poems. They are all written from a very human perspective and cover the day-to-day life of a Mother of two, wife and employee with a lovely twist of humour. As all of these things myself, I found the verses to be very relatable. The book is divided into four sections which each deal with different aspects of life, namely, Family RITUals, Life rituals, Rituals of the heart and Rituals to make you smile.
Who could not enjoy such words as the following:
“Snuggled close while you feed.
Little blessing, sent from God
My heart is filled with joy”
This took me right back to those first days as a Mother and the closeness of cuddling your new-born and breastfeeding.
“A cough or sniffle, fever, rash
You wish you could
make them well
but other than love, and Calpol
It’s a parent’s
Form of Hell”
As a Mother of a child with a chronic illness, this verse had me nodding my head in agreement and feeling Ritu’s anguish.
I would recommend this book which is a keeper. A book to delve into for a smile when life gets heavy going.
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Thank you for sharing, Edward.
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Thank you Robbie, you have given me a real boost this morning 🥰
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I am glad, Ritu. Thank you for participating with this great poem.
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You are most welcome 🥰
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Love the way, Ritu turns everyday life into poetry!
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Thank you sis 💜
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Thank you, Annette.
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Lovely review to share, Robbie. Bravo to Ritu! 🙂
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Thank you Natalie 💜
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Thank you, Natalie.
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Lovely poem and introduction to Ritu. Kudos to you both.
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Thank you so much 💜
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You’re most welcome Ritu.
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Thank you, Brad. I’m glad I could introduce you.
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Yay!
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Such beautiful imagery for my day. Thank you both!
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Thank you Jacquie 💜
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I am glad you enjoyed this, Jacqui.
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She has really followed the advice to write what you know. It often, as here, produces lovely results.
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Thank you Elizabeth. I can only write what I know from the heart 💜
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Thank you, Elizabeth. Ritu does write heartfelt and beautiful poetry.
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Lovely poem and I have read all of them! Ritu writes realistic poetry, capturing the moments so well. Thanks for sharing Robbie.
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Balroop, thank you so much 💜
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Thank you, Balroop. Ritu’s poetry is lovely and I love her focus on family and friends.
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This poem struck home for me, Ritu. I went through years of trying to get pregnant, temperature readings, trips to the specialists, high-potency meds- but I got my girl!
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I didn’t realise you struggled, Jacquie. I am so glad you got your girl. I had two early miscarriages and those were bad enough. I can imagine your disappointment.
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I was on a drug called Clomid and could only take it for 6 months due to the danger of cysts forming in the ovaries (I was checked monthly by a gaggle of specialists and interns- ugh!) and it was the sixth month that I became pregnant 🙂
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I was on Clomid when trying for my son… Had it for 2 months and it caused me migraines.
After a few months break, when my hormones were more settled, it worked on the second round. I know what you were feeling xx
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It’s a stressful time, but worth it in the end 🙂 My girl is thirty now; beautiful, smart, and a wonderful mother- my heart is full ❤
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Blessed 💜💜💜💜💜
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Oh I remember doing so many things… Even using a saliva microscope! The things we do for our babies… Glad it struck a chord with you, Jacquie 💜
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Poignant and powerful… Beautiful, Ritu. ❤
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Thank you so much, Bette 💜
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Thank you, Bette.
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This is a wonderful poem. I’m sure most moms can relate. Thanks for sharing Ritu’s poem, Robbie. xo
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Thank you Darlene 💜
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My pleasure, Darlene. This poem was a wonderful choice and hits home to all us moms, and probably the dads too.
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You picked a great poem to highlight Ritu, a wonderful author and person. Thank you, Robbie.
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Thank you, Jennie. You know, I wrote that poem in 10 minutes one day, when, as I ran a bath, words started playing in my head. Then I left the taps running and rushed to the computer. I feel it’s one of my most beautiful, heartfelt poems 💜
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It definitely is! Funny how writing sometimes comes as a flood. Meant to be, I’d say. ❤️
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True 💜
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Oh yes, Jennie, Ritu is the loveliest person. A great poetic choice, I agree.
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Indeed!
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Although I’ve never tried to have a baby, I know many women who have struggled with it and the poem speaks to their experiences. Thanks for sharing it, Robbie, and good luck to Ritu.
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Thank you for appreciating, Olga 💜
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Thank you, Olga. I never struggled but I know others who did and it is very emotionally draining for them.
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What precious poems.
Pleased to have discovered an authoress with such a gentle soul.
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Thank you, Patricia. Ritu writes lovely poetry and has a most entertaining blog too.
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Thank you so much Patricia ❤
I really appreciate your words ❤
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A beautiful poem. I’ve always been a fan of Ritu’s poetry. Thanks for featuring her and her work here, Robbie! ❤
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Thank you Vashti 🥰
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Thank you, Vashti. Ritu does write lovely poetry.
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As Jacqui said “beautiful imagery for my day.” Brings back some heartfelt memories.
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It really does, Teri. It seems such a short time and yet so long, since my boys were babies.
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Time flies!
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Thank you so much Teri 🥰
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I enjoyed the poem you shared, particularly the “twinkles.”
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Thank you for appreciating 💜🙏🏽
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You’re most welcome!
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Thank you, Liz.
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