I don’t wear a wedding ring and neither does Mr Fox. I also don’t wear an engagement ring. I was never keen on rings and didn’t care at all about their symbolism. I do have both but I never wear them. Both of my original rings were stolen when my Mother and I were involved in a home invasion about seven years ago. I never wanted to replace either ring but the insurance insisted on a replacement. I very rarely wear the new ring. It doesn’t bring back good memories for me at all.
Charli’s prompt this week made me think of how some women are viewed as possessions by the men in their lives. This, linked with my disregard for rings, led to this 99-word piece:
“But it’s a symbol of love,” he pleaded with her. “The roundness of the ring indicates infinity. It is endless and eternal, just like my love for you.”
“I am not wearing a ring,” she told him firmly. “That is a lovely romantic notion, but it makes me feel like a possession. I will not be someone’s property.”
He never managed to dissuade her from this determined view about rings. He bought her both and she kept them in the safe. Beautiful and expensive, their value could only increase. she would sell them if he ever cheated.
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I made the cake in the picture for a friend’s engagement a few years ago. If you look carefully you will see the ring in the center of a flower.
Great cake Robbie! And flash too!
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Thank you, Ritu.
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I love your view on “property values” I also agree whole-heartedly! I have a ring that I only wear at work because I deal with the male populace all day and sadly, wearing a ring that says “I belong to someone else” was the only way to get them to leave me alone. 😧
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I totally understand that, Nicole. I have worn mine from time to time for the same reason. It is a good thing rings don’t smell of mothballs [giggle].
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Too true!
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Ha, sounds like she isn’t 100% convinced of his infinite love for her. Great take.
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I am the world’s biggest cynic.
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I would not have guessed that.
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Welcome in the club! LOL But in the English language i cant explain this so perfect. Michael
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Excellent logic 💜
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Thank you, Willow.
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Great cake & very reasonable attitude to the wedding rings! In fact they don’t make feelings, love, relationship!
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I completely agree, Maria. I am glad you liked this cake.
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🙂 Your sweet masterpieces must be in the museum!
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You are a good person, Robbie. I like your values.
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Thank you, Yassy.
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Well a ring doesn’t guarantee marital happiness but I guess the dollar value does lend a smidgen of security.
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I think wedding rings have helped women out financially many times in the past, Bernadette.
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Reblogged this on Die Erste Eslarner Zeitung – Aus und über Eslarn, sowie die bayerisch-tschechische Region!.
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Thank you, Michael.
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Well done, Robbie! 🙂 Sharing… xo
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Thank you, Bette. Thinking of an idea for this one was a bit challenging.
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I can well imagine why you don’t want to wear the replacement rings. I feel naked if I go out without my rings on. But I don’t wear them at home.
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I was never keen and the theft was the last straw. Every time I see that replacement ring, I get a flash back of that gun at my head.
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I wore my wedding and engagement ring for a few weeks after I was married but soon took them off for good as I found that constantly washing my hands, using detergents. working in the garden, etc. meant I was taking them off all the time or getting a soggy ring of skin under them. My husband has never worn his, he doesn’t like any kind of jewelery on men except a watch.
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We are very practical people, Kim. Terence never really wore his either.
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Great response to the prompt, Robbie. Many of us don’t wear rings, for all different reasons. How wonderful we now have the choice, about that at least.
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When we went to Italy, Norah, Terence bought me an Italian puzzle ring. If you take it off, it falls to pieces and only the men know how to put it back together. It was to prevent a woman from cheating and taking off her ring.
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Mmm. That’s interesting. I wonder how this situation between men and women began. I’d love to go back in history and see when men started to think of themselves as superior and women as possessions.
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A most interesting take on the prompt. I had a hard time adjusting to my wedding ring, as I was not used to wearing rings for longer than an evening, for dress-up. My husband used to give me such grief but it was what it was. Now, that ring in a field in Ohio, where I tossed it about 20 years ago.
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That is exactly what I mean, Annette. It is behaviour and respect that keep a relationship going not a piece of symbolism but each to their own.
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Wow, great twist there at the end, Robbie. I love it! Beautiful cake, and so sorry to hear about the home invasion ❤️
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It was a long time ago, Tina. Unfortunately, it is hard to forget. I am pleased you enjoyed the flash.
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I think traumas are never forgotten, Robbie, but they do get easier to bear over time ❤️
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Very good, Robbie.
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Thank you, Jennie.
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You’re welcome, Robbie.
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What a horrible thing you and your mother experienced – I can’t even imagine. The cake is lovely, Robbie!
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Thank you, Teri. It was an awful experience and, unfortunately, the memory remains.
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